She Is Never Sexually Satisfied:My Wife Always Asking For More(SEE)

A 42-year-old, Sola Babarinde, has asked an Orile-Agege Customary Court in Lagos  to dissolve his 11-year-old marriage to his wife,  because she threatened to pour acid on his new wife and is never satisfied with $*x. 

Babarinde had approached the court to seek dissolution of his marriage over allegations of infidelity and threat to his life by his wife. 

“My wife is never satisfied in bed,even if i give her my best,is not always good for her, she asks for more even when we have gone two rounds, she behaves more like a man than a woman. Because of this, she goes out at will and comes home late at night. I have never enjoyed my union with her. 

“She left me for six months and before she came back, I had taken another wife to take care of the two children she left for me,” the husband said. 

“I can’t accept Nurat back because she has done a lot of damage to my life. I want the court to dissolve the union and grant me custody of my children,” he said. 

However, 36-year-old Nurat denied all the allegations, adding that her husband was lying just to get rid of her.

Nurat, a trader and resident of 9, Gbadamosi Street, Orile-Agege, stated that since her husband didn’t want her again, she was also ready for divorce. 

She also levelled allegations against Babarinde. 

She stated: “My husband married another wife while I was sick and was taken out of Lagos for treatment. 

“He goes around with anything in skirt and he is always drunk whenever he comes back from work. He came here to lie against me just because he doesn’t want me again. 

“I met him when he was wearing rags and now that he thinks he has something, he said he is tired of me,” she said. 

The case have been adjourned .

"How I Took A Blood Oath With My Girl,Now i want out

Love is blind,but once it becoming so unbearable you we began to see so clearly..lol

below is a story of a young guy who was so in-love that he decided to swear a blood hot with his girlfriend,see what happen after that below...

I took a blood oath with a girl for my own selfish reasons. Though I have feelings for her but if you ask me, I’d say she has little feelings for me.

Since taking the oath,  I’m no longer myself, I isolate myself from all my good female friends. This has resulted into calls for thorough investigation into what is going on. 

My hands are always on my cheek whenever I’m alone.

The oath was made between the both of us. No native doctor was there. The razor blade we used; is still with me.

Please I want to know if the oath is potent without a native doctor. If it is, please assist me on what to do.

How A 19-year old girl, pours hot water on her lover(LOOK)

A 19 year old jealous female student of Science Laboratory Technology (SLT) Department of Osun State Polytechnic (OSPOLY) has been arrested by the men of the Nigerian police for pouring hot water on her boyfriend shortly after his birthday was celebrated.

 Yetunde, poured the hot water on Niyi Adelana (above) because he invited other girls to his party and flirted with them during the birthday party celebration.

   Her boyfriend  Niyi, a Higher National Diploma (HND) II student of Computer Science, suffered serious burns and was taken to the hospital for treatment.


 She said investigation was still going on and that upon completion, the girl would be charged to court for her act.

TRUE CONFESSION:I’m Pregnant for My Mother’s New Husband

This story is about a young girl who lost her dad at a very early stage of her life and her mum was bust telling her different story about the d---th of his father,read to see what really happen below,,,

Nancy’s father died in a ghastly motor accident when she was barely two months old. His photographs were always with her but she never knew him. She prodded her mother endlessly to tell her stories about her father and was never tired hearing the same thing over and again.

Any time she saw her friends with their fathers, she was always jealous  and this made her even longed for that person she could refer to as a father. Along the line, she gained admission into a polytechnic to study accountancy.

She became really close to Ahmed, a final year HND student of the same department. They were from the same tribe and spoke the same language. Being a fresher who was largely ignorant about her surroundings and the way things worked, she found succour in him, who was only too glad to provide a shoulder for her to lean on.

While Nancy saw in him a guardian, Ahmed saw in her, a prey he couldn't wait to feast on. He slept with her and deceived her into thinking that he cared very much about her.

Before he graduated, he pledged his undying love for her and she believed him. Unfortunately, whatever existed between them both ended as soon as he left. Try as she could, nothing could be done about restoring their relationship. He had moved on with another woman.

She picked up the pieces of her life and moved on. Not too long after, she met Lawrence, an older student in the same polytechnic.

He was contented remaining her very good friend, offering her succour and advice when needed but Nancy wanted more. She loved his disposition and wanted him for keeps. With time, she won him over and like her previous relationship, it ended same way.

Again, she moved on. By the time she began making plans to start her internship; her mother had found love with a well-known business man, Igwe Albert, who married her as his second wife.

Naturally, Nancy became his step daughter. Igwe ensured that his new wife was happy—he set her up in business, got her a good apartment and a car. He also ensured that his step daughter lacked nothing.

He even urged her to have her internship in the accounts department of his company. Seeing how well she did her job and even helping to reduce his overhead cost, he came to appreciate her and showered her with praises and gifts.

It soon got to a point where she stayed back after most of the workers have closed for the day, balancing the books. On such occasions, Igwe would stay back to keep her company and related with her the way a father would with a daughter.

Nancy appreciated this kind gesture and quickly warmed up to him. She was glad to have found a real father figure at last!

One evening, when they were relating as usual, their discussion soon became raunchy and they had $3x in the office! She felt bad that she had betrayed her mother.

“I don’t want you to tell your mother about what happened tonight,” Igwe said and signed a cheque of N2m in her name. She didn’t believe he could be this generous and thought this could be the last intimate moment they would share together.

But it wasn’t. Igwe kept coming for her and so were the gifts and money. Her initial fear was erased. Nancy relaxed and went full throttle with him. Not even the mother suspected anything because she believed her husband was taking care of her daughter.

Three months after, she became pregnant and her mother and the first wife soon found out. But Nancy refused an ab00rtion.

“Mother, do you remember what the prophet you took me to when I was 18 years old said?” Nancy asked her mother. Her mother had taken her to a prophet for prayers when she suffered from a strange ailment and medical help failed. Nancy was prayed for and she got better. The prophet warned her mother that the girl must never have an ab00rtion, if she did, she would die!

“So, you are going to keep the pregnancy and marry my husband?” her mother said despite-fully.

“Nancy, the prophecy was five years ago and it was because of your illness. You must go for an ab00rtion.”

Surprisingly, even Igwe sits on the fence about it and told mother and daughter to take the decision they felt was the best for them.

But both Nancy’s mother and his first wife are set for battle. They asked that the pregnancy be terminated.

WOW..WHAT A STORY..

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UNBELIEVABLE:I Am In Love With My Brother And We've Been Doing 'THINGS', I Don't Know What To Do

Shocking right? Myself  and my younger brother have always been close since we where young, he's 18, I'm 20 and recently we've seen our relationship blossom to a level i can no longer control my feelings for him. 

I wish I were trolling, that what I'm about to tell you is a lie - but it's not, please don't judge me. 

It's been this way for a month now, we'd always been typically close siblings but ever since he broke up with his girlfriend, I would comfort him and say "it's alright, you'll find someone perfect someday." 

Last week we were in his room and I said those exact words, we looked into one another eyes and kissed. It felt weird, he came onto me but I reciprocated and before long we were French kissing on his bed, he was touching my THINGS. 

Then, of course, our parents returned and I felt wrong. Kind of gross, even. 

I went back to my room and cried. The next day we were home alone and he kissed me again, things got out of hand and we were doing things to each other, then we made passionate lovemaking and reclined into one another's arms. It's been almost three days since we made love, we've been kissing and doing other things whenever we can and I can honestly say that we are in love. 

Not even my boyfriend has handle me the way he does ,i know this is wrong but i cant really concentrate any-more,i am so confused and worried because he said he love me too. 

We've been planning our future together, and I'm beginning to think I made a HUGE mistake - I love him, but I'm not sure if it's like that. 

What should I do? I don't condone what I did at all, please don't mock or insult me ,,,,all i need is you advise..THANKS

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HOW I USE MY MENSTRUAL BLOOD AND URINE TO COOK FOR MY BOYFRIEND

My name is Rose and i have been dating my boyfriend  for over six years now, i have been faithful to him. He really love $3x so much that he can't do a day with out it. I have been trying all best best to make sure i keep him to my self alone, by giving him $3x the way he want it. We something have sex 4 times a day. Even though i sometimes love the way he FK  me but i always make sure he is happy and well pleased.

One day i told him, i want to go and visit my parent, and i will stay with them for 1 weeks. I beg him not to sleep with any woman until i come back, he agreed and gave me a send of FK, he did it as if  he was doing  me for the last time. It was really fun. When i want to my parent place, i decided to spend some more days , when i return i met my boyfriend riding on another girl and she was really enjoying it. I became very mad at it,i was very angry like never before when i saw them. I was outside until they are through. 

He came out and met me outside, he started begging as so as he saw me, that it is a mistake. I cried and cry. After one week I forgive him because i love him, but i was still angry with him. He asked me to cook rice for him. I was on my period, i removed my pad and suck it inside water and make sure the blood much in the water, i added my urine into the water and i made stew for him, he came back and ate the food without knowing. 

My question is, did i do the  right thing? Or i over reacted? Should i tell him?because i am feeling very worried and confused.

15 WRONG REASONS TO GET MARRIED!

Here are 15 wrong reasons to get married,some just think marriage is what you we just wake up one day and jump into it,don't get married for these reasons below,,,,
1. You must not get married because of lust.

2. Infatuation (Love at first sight- sudden love)

3. Just liking the idea of marriage. It's just like joining the Army because you like the uniform. Nobody joins the army with a promise that he won't go to war.

4. The fear of remaining unmarried(my friends are all married, my sisters are all
married e.t.c)

5. Pressure (parents, friends, etc)

6. Because you want to escape being jilted (if he is the right man/woman, he or she wont jilt you)

7. Getting married for money (money does not guarantee a successful marriage at all.

8. Using marriage as an escape route! [I am tired of mummy and daddy]

9. Having pity... (feeling sorry for the Man or the Woman.)

10. Foolish Expectation......[Marrying an unbeliever and expecting him/her to change in the course marriage! especially if they don't change before you marry them]

11. Marrying for Beauty or Handsomeness.......[The best time to access a woman properly is absolutely when she wakes up in the morning!] Let him see you as you are Now!!!

12. Accidental PREGNANCY! [Just because you become pregnant along the line doesn't mean you have to bury your destiny there.

13. Tribal Connection [I must marry someone from my town.,,etc...]

14. To satisfy your Parents.

15. Marrying to hurt your Parent

BY Dr D.K Olukoya (MFM)

18 Things Women Think They Know About Men But Really Don't

So lets talk about  "The Secret Lives Of Men," so I'm supposed to tell you something you don't know about men,so I doubt there's much you don't already know or at least suspect about guys.

Instead, I'd like to take things you think you know about us and tell you why you're wrong. I know  You'll thank me later. Or not. Your choice. We came to this conclusion about a long-time research and many questions asked.

Men are always thinking about s3x.

Not always. Sometimes we think about football or food. If a guy falls off a building, I doubt he's thinking about s3x on the way down. Unless he's thinking about how he'll never have s3x again.

Men get involuntary boners all the time.

They aren't involuntary. We were thinking about s3x.

Men don't listen.

Sorry, what? No, you're right, we don't listen when you try to tell us important things when we're half-asleep or playing XBox or watching a game. Want our attention? Tell us right before s3x.

Men think they are better than women.

Some do, but some don't. Me, I'm well aware that my wife, my sisters and most of my female friends are smarter and hipper than I am. And I'm okay with that.

Most men want to offer solutions even when one isn't needed/wanted.

You're welcome.

Men don't care how they look.

Wrong. We're as insecure as you about our weight, our hair, our bodies. We just don't admit it.

Men don't like affection.

Everybody needs affection, male or female. That's one of the reasons we like women so much: you're there to give us a hug and kind words when we need it. And we need it. Of course, the fact that affection often leads to s3x doesn't hurt, either.

Men love to argue.

No, we don't!

Men love p00rn.

Yes, many of us do. But not all of us. I think there are two guys in Utah who don't, but only because they can't find any.

Men have difficulty thinking outside the box.

Heh, you said box.

Men are too picky about women.

We're not nearly as picky as you are about yourselves or each other.

Men can't multitask.

I'm writing and thinking about boobs at this very moment, so you're wrong.

No matter how old men are, they never stop thinking that farts are funny.

Did we laugh that time you farted during s2x? Nope.

Men don't cry at movies.

HEY!The guys cry at movies, just not always the same kind of movies that make women cry. Women cry about romance, failed romance and dead friends. Guys cry about dogs (Old Yeller, My Dog Skip), baseball (Field Of Dreams, The Natural), and war (Glory, Saving Private Ryan). An older friend of mine wept so hard at Platoon that he had to leave the theatre  Of course, he fought in Vietnam, so that might have had something to do with it.

Men can't ever find things.

Wrong, every guy knows where his p00rn stash is.

Men are big babies when we're sick.

Yeah, okay, I'll give you that one. Blame our mothers.

When a man asks where in the house he can find a particular item, he really means for you to get up and get it for him.

What's the big deal? You can wait until the next time you're up.

Men masturbate all the time.

Not true. I'm not masturbating right now. I need both hands to type. I'm almost done typing, though.

A MUST READ:61 Things Girls Don't Know About Guys

Sometimes the ladies really think they know their man too well,but they are more to just knowing your guy than really knowing that which he really wants or care about 

1. Guys hate sluts even though they have s3x with them! (oh yeah..you're not "popular" if you've slept with more than 5 guys..you're a HOE)

2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

3... Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about. 

4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes. 

5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile. 

6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him. 

7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method. 

8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to. 

9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved. 

10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend. 

11. Guys get jealous easily. 

12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think. 

13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out. 

14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like. 

15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway. 

16. Girls are guys' weaknesses. 

17. Guys are very open about themselves. 

18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long. 

19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend. 

20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice. 

21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you. 

22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships. 

23. Guys will brag about anything. 

24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot. 

25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant. 

26. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused. 

27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships. 

28. Try to be as straightforward as possible. 

29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up. 

30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl. 

31. No matter how much guys talk about butts and boobs, personality is key. 

32. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience. 

33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped. 

34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside. 

35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that. 

36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me." 

37. Guys don't really have final decisions. 

38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up. 

39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you. 

40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something. 

41. Guys like femininity not feebleness. 

42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do. 

43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your n3ked eyes. 

44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily. 

45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much. 

46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys. 

47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more. 

48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them. 

49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day. 

50. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it. 

51. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us. 

52. We don't like girls who are too skinny. 

53. We love it when girls talk about there boobs. 

54. Always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy ...like wheather it's a one time deal or not ... 

55. Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to..it may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unoticable tell them about yours... 

56. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you s3xually 

57. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.. 

58. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts... 

59. Guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. Even if he doesn't intend to it will happen. Know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that...after you let him know a couple times. 

60. When a guy sacerfices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible. 

61. Your best friend, the guy you can go to with anything, is the guy who loves you more than any other ever could. He'd do anything to be with you, and will always love you. When he sees you cry he wishes he could change the stars to make you happy. He would go to the end of the world for you and loves you deeply. 

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Tips On What To Do To Get Over Your EX (SEE)

Most time it is very difficult for some of us to get over our EX,i think most time the women cant,as they after think about how sweet it was or how the connection was,it rings in their head all the time,but they are better ways to forget about them if really you want to.

 We've all been there  follow these tips below, i believe it we be of great help

Take time to rebuild your relationship with yourself

"Often in order to make a relationship work we try to put our partner's wants and needs before our own. As a result, when the relationship ends we can find it difficult to know what makes us feel fulfilled in our own right. This can lead us to hold onto a relationship we know is over because we feel lost without it. Rebuilding your relationship with yourself is the first step to moving on. Take a step back and think about all the things you enjoyed doing before you started the relationship, learn to enjoy your own company – even if it's sitting in a café on your own with a good book or going for a long walk."

Set yourself a new goal or pursue an old ambition

"Your new found freedom gives you the time to pursue new goals or resume old ones that have been put on the back burner because you were investing so much time in your relationship. Whether you have always fancied yourself as a budding entrepreneur or simply want to learn a new skill, investing your time and energy on something which produces positive results will do wonders for your confidence and help you move on more easily."

Spend time with those who increase your feelings of self worth

"During the course of a relationship we may neglect other close relationships such as with friends and family which can make us feel even more isolated when the relationships ends. If so, it may be time to pick up the phone and start reconnecting with those who knew and loved you pre – relationship. Spending time with people who make you feel good about yourself will increase your feelings of self worth and help you to avoid seeking comfort with your ex."

Exercise away the blues

"During sex your body produces endorphins which act as a natural anti-depressant, lifting your mood and relieving stress. Exercise is a great substitute because it releases the same endorphins and induces the same general state of well-being – even 10 minutes of moderate exercise is enough to improve your mood. In addition, exercise will help your body to look and feel better which will help your self confidence and put you in a better frame of mind to leave your past relationship behind and move on to pastures new."

Discover new pleasurable sensations

"If you are missing the intimate side of your relationship, falling into the arms of a rebound lover can get messy and complicated- instead focus on yourself, explore your own body and have fun discovering new pleasurable sensations. Bondara.co.uk has a wide range of pleasure products that can help you experiment with solo indulgence. If this is a new experience, going for something small and non- intimidating like an intimate massager or a bullet is a great way to get started."

A MUST READ:Take Your Time To Read This Because It Carries Some Sense

Never leave a true relationship for few FAULTS that can be resolved or ignored. Remember there's no one who is correct or perfect in everything she or he does.

When time comes when you are giving up on someone because of his or her imperfections, first take a look at yourself and question yourself if you are flawless in everything, Then think of the next person you are going date, won't he/she find you also imperfect somewhere? Then how will you feel when he or she dumps you because of that? 

What if you find him/her worse than your ex? Will you also dump that person because he/she doesn't match with what you want? Then when will that habit of picking and dropping lovers end? Think of the years that are going, you are growing up, you are losing each and every chance that comes your way simply because you are looking for the complete person! 

Your mates are getting married and settling down with their dudes and babes but for your case you are still in a hunt for the right person. My friends, there is no Mr. and Mrs. Perfect on earth. If you are thinking of letting go of your caring, patient, loving, understanding, trustworthy dude or babe, think twice prior you decide.

 You’re better off than many lonely or broken hearted people out there. Someone is out there admiring your Man or woman and wishes to replace you one day. Someone is out there praying and campaigning for your break up, some are your friends pretending to be your best friends. 

Come on, solve those disagreements, give your lover privacy if it’s what he or she needs, if it needs ignoring some things please do so that you keep your relationship going on, and feel free to apologize when you are in wrong, be a good listener, don’t entertain rumours that much, Make decisions on your own, use your brain and follow your heart.

 Be God fearing, Stick by your lover, appreciate what he/she sacrifices for you no matter it’s small because that is what he/she can afford. Be proud of your lover and make your relationship admirable by everyone. There's a saying that the devil you know is better the angel you don't know!

BE WISE....

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11 Relationship Truths Every Woman Should Know

No matter how hard the truth is ,it must still be said even though some Ladies love to hear lies but just like the holy book said it is only the truth that can set you free....

Read this very carefully and advice yourself....

1. Guys love to marry independent and mature ladies… So instead of sitting there and waiting to be bluffed by a guy, focus on getting a career that would take you out of the housewife category.

2. Never let the sweet talks of guys deceive you, most times they just want to go between your legs and run off thereafter.

3. Stop fantasising that guys will keep coming up to approach you. The older you get by the day, the less admirers you have.

4. Stop playing ‘too’ hard to get! Remember, nothing lasts forever. If you still doubt, check out the number of matured single ladies looking up to GOD FOR A Miracle.

5. Never extort things from a guy you don’t love, guys always have ways of paying a girl back, either through their FRIENDS or total ’PAID’ STRANGERS….BE CAREFUL.

6. Never be deceived, you cant keep a guy using sex. You can never win a man over with your body.

7. If all you take to the relationship is the mind set to EXTRACT MONEY from him, don’t complain if all he ask from you is your body. He has seen you have nothing else to offer…

8. Don’t be fooled when guys tell you they have never met a prettier girl, they will say that same thing to an 70 year old woman they want to get intimate with.

9. A guy always taking you to the CINEMA, FAST FOOD, MALL AND EVENTS, CLUBS is no sign that he loves you, if he doesn't care to ask and PLAN THE FUTURE WITH YOU, then you are just his ‘SOCIAL MATE’

10. If the only time he invites you over is when he needs to cook, clean the house and do his laundry, then just know you are his “executive house help”.

11. If he avoids meeting your family and close friends, then it is an obvious sign he is just playing games with you.

I Think My New Boyfriend Drugged and R3ped Me In The Night(LOOK)

This story was sent to us via our email by niggist.blogspot.com reader, hence I decided to share. she  lady met a guy and they have only known each other for 2 weeks, she decided  to go spend  a night in his house ......check out what happen after that very night.... according to her.....

"I'm so worried about this. I spent a night at a guy's house and the following morning I felt really funny all over, especially in my private area like someone who has had pen-tr-tion.

"He's someone I met two weeks ago and was planning to date but told him I wasn't ready for s3x yet. I've been having this uneasy feeling since the morning I left his house that he took advantage of me during the night without my knowledge. 

"I keep having these images in my head. I know he gave me a lot of alcohol the previous night and he told me later he carried me to bed, though I woke up in the same clothes. I asked him if anything happened between us that night and he said no, but I'm not convinced."

Do you think this guy actually did something to her??

For Men: 5 Questions You Must Never Ask Your Woman(SEE)

The major complaint men have is that they don’t get to understand women,i know sometimes pleasing woman can be very difficult but they are still some ways you can avoid their anger,  Women get angry for no reason, say “Yes” when they mean “No” and vice versa. You might never fully understand the way your woman’s mind works but here are a few questions you must NEVER ask her for any reason or whatsoever .

1, Are you wearing that/don't tell me you are wearing?

Whenever you’re going out with your girl she puts her best into her appearance to look good for you. She’ll take this question to mean that you think she looks terrible and you’d rather not be seen with her with the way she’s dressed,she meant not understand what you mean,don't forget i said sometimes woman can be very hard to please.

2, Don’t you think you should lose weight/you are getting very FAT?

Most girls, whether skinny or fat, are somewhat self conscious about their bodies. That’s why this question is a bombshell. Your girl will assume that you’re calling her fat and she will take out all her frustration about her imperfections on you,yes that has happen to me ,i remember telling her to loose weight,that relationship almost crumbled .

3, Do you want me to show you how my Ex used to do it?

DONT EVER ,  compare your girlfriend with your ex. Don’t tell her how your ex used to dress or cook or how she was in bed. Never offer to teach her something that your ex used to do.

4, Would you like to have bigger b*****bs?

A girl translates this to mean that her body is not to your satisfaction and that you wish she had bigger b******bs. This will make her insecure and you can be sure you’ll be attacked or suspected every time a large chested girl walks past.

5, Do you mind if I add my Ex on Facebook?

This is a horrible question to ask your girlfriend. This is one of those times when you’ll get an answer like “Go ahead” or “Do what you want”. For your own sake, don’t go ahead and don’t do what you want.

Remember guys, the most innocent and sincere question can be analysed and twisted in your girlfriend’s mind till it becomes horrible so watch out!and try to find a way to make it sound good in her ear.

7 Types Of Men Every Woman Should Date(LOOK)

 Please find a way to pick out the positive impact this should have on you and never allow its full content make you who you are. It is a piece everywhere Nigeria decided to put up and its very purpose is to help us channel our energies to the real thing one should be looking for in a man,this should also apply to the woman .

1. The Unmarried Man 

This may seem obvious, but it is very necessary to mention. There are too many women attempting have relationships with married men. Married men are not a candidate for single women to date… period! This includes married men who are separated (legally or otherwise). They are still married and not available to date. Married people have their own families and concerns to deal with. That being said, the unmarried man, who is devoted to the things of God, is the type of man you should be interested in dating. (1 Corinthians 7:32-35). 

2. The Kingdom Seeker 

A man who is seeking God’s Will for His life will, not only seek out a woman to date, but will seek out his wife. The Bible says, “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you” (Matthew 6:33). Ladies, you should be an asset; the thing that is *added* to him as he is FIRST seeking the kingdom of God. This is why I say, run as fast as you can for Jesus and the one who can keep up might be the one.

3. The Real Man 

No, I am not talking about machismo behavior (all the shoulders back, chest out, fist curling gestures and such)… Real men don’t need all of that. That’s what grown-boys do to get a woman’s attention. Real men “pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace” (2. Timothy 2:22). Real men regard women as a gift that is not to be taken advantage of; they see her as priceless and desire to cling to her (Matthew 19:5). A real man’s character shows his high regard for a woman long before the dating stage.

4. The Learner 

A man who is in continual pursuit of knowledge is better equipped to handle life and execute on goals / plans. He should read, seek counsel, study continuously, etc… The Bible says, “Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed”( Proverbs 15:22). Also, “My people are destroyed because of lack of knowledge” (Hosea 4:6). A man who is willing to learn and gain knowledge in life should also be more open to gaining knowledge about love and having successful relationships.

5. The Multiplier 

A man shouldn't just balance you out, he should constantly add to you. His presence should multiply your potential. He should add to the beauty of who you are and never take away from anything that is precious about you. ( “Relationship Coaching: Do you multiply or divide?”) The Bible says, “Do not be deceived: ‘Bad company ruins good morals.’” (1 Corinthians 15:33). The man you date should never cause you to compromise good morals. He should seek ways to support you in your values. His values should complement yours.

6. The Servant 

A man who has demonstrated a pattern of submitting to authorities in his life (leadership, pastors, parents, etc…) will also have an understanding of how to submit to God as the head of his life and, subsequently, how to commit to his future wife. The Bible says, “Obey your leaders and submit to them… Let them do this with joy and not with groaning,” (Hebrews 13:17). His positive attitude towards authority figures is an indication of his servant’s heart and also provides a picture of how he can be in a dating relationship.

7. The Consistent Man 

 The consistent man is not in a rush because he does not have poor intentions, nor is he interested in manipulating a woman to be led by her emotions ,Emotions rise and fall, but character shows with consistency. He will take his time to get to know you and will allow you to get to know him as well. The Bible says, “Whoever walks in integrity will be delivered, but he who is crooked in his ways will suddenly fall.” (Proverbs 28:18). Over time, the consistent man’s good character will still stand, while the man with bad intentions will also come to light.

Remember, the purpose of dating is to get to know a person. If you take your time to get to know him, you will be able to find out if he is the type of man you should date or wants to be with for the rest of your life and don't forget that some men can be a very good pretender ...pray for God to lead you.

I Impregnated A Young Girl To Test My Manh000d

They have been married for  12 years and his wife could not give him a child,So he decided to look outside her wife just to confirm if his "thing" is active or inactive. 

The family of Mr & Mrs Onuoha, who reside in the Alakuko area of Lagos at the moment. but  the wife is insisting that she can't take it.

40yrs old Mrs. Regina Onuoha, an ex-banker, has pleaded with Alakuko Customary Court to dissolve her marriage with Mr. Paulinus Onuoha, over infidelity.

The couple has been married for 12 years without an issue. The wife’s claim in court was that there was no more love in their marriage as her husband had become so irresponsible and uncaring.

Regina told the court that since they got married, she had been the one taking care of the house, her husband had been jobless. She said she rented the apartment they both live in, but with all that, her husband was still cheating on her.

She said the worst of all he did was the fact that he impregnated a woman twice while she (the wife) was still praying for the fruit of the womb.

“I was hopeful after the marriage that I was going to have my own child. I spent all my money on the efforts to have a child, but my husband never cared. 

“Four years into our marriage, my husband impregnated a woman and then four years later, he impregnated her again, making two children while I was hoping to have one,” she said.

She added that when her father-in-law died, her husband asked her to give him N300,000, but she told him she didn’t have so much, that she could only afford N120,000.

“I couldn’t afford the N300,000 my husband asked me to give him but I gave him N120,000 for his father’s burial, but he asked me not to follow him to the burial, saying I didn’t need to be there.

“He did this just to prevent me from running into his other wife and children because he took them to the village for the occasion and he thought I wouldn’t know, but I gathered the information from someone in his village,” she said.

She asked the court to tell her husband to come and pack his things away from her house as she is tired of the marriage because she didn’t have any love for him again.

Her husband, Onuoha, who claimed to be a trader, told the court that all that his wife said is true, and that he is very guilty, but he didn’t mean to hurt her. He prostrated to seek her forgiveness in court.

“I didn’t mean to impregnate the other woman, it was just that I needed to have a child with my wife and we couldn’t produce one, so I went out to test my fertility, to know whether I was or was not fertile enough to have a child,” he said.

He added that he was ready to change his behaviour and take care of his wife as he would assist her spiritually, financially and even physically in her effort to have her own children.

“I cannot even be sure or say that the other woman’s children are mine because in my tradition, if a woman is not married to a man and she has children for him, the children are not considered his until a proper traditional marriage is done. It is my wife I love, she’s the one I want to have a child with, please help me to beg her,” he said.

The court president, Mr. Godwin Awosola, told the man to seek God’s intervention over his home. He also told them to maintain the peace and stop abusing each other.

The case has been adjourned till August 17, 2013.

Will you blame this man for his action??/

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IS SHE OR HE MAKING YOU FAT?Long-term Relationships Could Be Number One Reason For Weight Gain

In many relationship must especially the ladies  take a good watch of their weight gain,but after spending some times with their boyfriend they stop to look towards that direction of watching their weight.this also apply to the men. 

From a romantic dinners to cosy evenings spent watching TV and eating popcorn on the sofa, spending time with your other half can be a calorific affair.

Scientist have  revealed that being in a relationship is the single biggest cause of weight gain - superseding more obvious causes such as overindulging on holiday or comfort eating after a break-up.

67 per cent of those polled said they gained up to one stone after committing to a relationship, with just under three quarters saying they thought their partner had gained weight too.Two thirds of the couples surveyed said that they have put on weight together.

Portion size is the main cause of the problem for women, with more than half of the women asked saying they regularly match what their male partner eats.

As a result, 56 per cent said this meant they ate portions of a far larger size than normal, which contributed to them piling on the pounds.

Couples' activities also contribute to weight gain with 30 per cent saying that they spend most of their quality time curled up in front of the TV, and 21 per cent saying they spend most of their time together eating at home.

Another 20 per cent said that eating out as a couple formed the bulk of their time spent together.